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Roger and Paula Parsons posted a condolence
Sunday, April 6, 2025
Oh My !
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Gary.
I only just heard the news ( April 6, 2025)!!
I add; ……….my entire family feel so sorry. We did not know of the critical situation at the time !
It is always a sad time to lose someone you love, cherish. Especially: when you spend so many years, so much care and love to ensure that the one you share your life / love with is comforted and looked after as you did, sir. God bless you for all you have done for this spirit.
I respect you for that alone .
May her life and memories be a blessing to you and you family; again our condolences to you and all who love you Gary.
From myself, my wife and all in our family….. God bless you and give you strength and comfort.
Again; very disappointed we did not know of the loss until now .
God Bless
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David & Sherry Banfield posted a condolence
Thursday, April 3, 2025
Gary, James & Amanda, sending our thoughts and prayers and deepest condolences at this time.
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Mabel O’Quinn posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
Gary, James, and Amanda, In these moments, when there are no words, know that the ones we love remain beside us, now and always.
With love
Mabel
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Deborah Barry posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
Condolences to the Holden family, near and far, in the loss of Pamela. I pray peace and comfort for each of you, and joy in the love and memories shared together.
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Wayne Courage posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
I am sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. I worked with Pam at the telephone company. She had a great sense of humor and a hearty laugh. May all your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.
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Carmel Hopkins posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
Gary and family. Sorry for your loss. Treasure your memories.
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Brenda Harding posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
Gary, James and Amanda.
I was deeply saddened to hear of Pam's passing. I had the pleasure of being on her service as one of her Home Support Attendants for four months in 2021. She accepted and faced the many challenges resulting from her long journey with MS with grace and dignity and focused on the positive. I will always remember her resilience and positive attitude, her love of K-Rock and "Queen". She had an infectious smile, loved a good laugh, and a chat, and was so proud of all of you. May your many happy memories bring you smiles and hold you up in the days ahead. Brian and I send our heartfelt condolences.
With deepest Sympathy,
Brenda Harding
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Robert French posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
My condolences to you and your family at this difficult time
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Wednesday, April 2, 2025
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Stephen and Marilyn Hlavine posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Garry and Family
Our sincere condolences durning this difficult time
Steve and Marilyn Glavine
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Annette Ellsworth posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Gary, James,and Amanda so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife and mom. Pam and I shared many fun times together and she will be missed. She loved life and good times and had a ready laugh and story. Wishing you all a peace in the coming days as you adjust to this new reality. Condolences to you all and to her wide circle of family and friends.
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Brian Holden posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Gary, James and Amanda, we are sending you our love and condolences. Pam is such a free spirit and it was so tragic that MS brought such upheaval to Pam's life and yours'. In The first half of her life Pam brought the party everywhere she went. Pam's passion and spirit shone brightly and she touched all our lives in the very best way. Pam loved life. Her happiness was infectious. She was very funny, loved telling jokes, and she was kind to everyone. Even while under the grip of MS, Pam's perseverance and spirit were an example to all right up to and until her passing. Thank you Gary for being her shining knight! And James and Amanda your love sustained your mom. She was so proud of you. God bless you all!
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Lucia Traverse Gray posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Gary Megan & James and all the Holden Family - my deepest condolences to all of you on the passing of your beloved wife, Mom, sister. I have many fond memories of Pam and her family when her Mom and I visited. I always admired Pam's strength, her acceptance of her MS and striving to be a rock for her family. My prayers and blessings are with Gary and their children and all her family. May God give you all the strength in the coming days and comfort you in knowing now that Pam is reunited with her Mom and Dad, sister, Jeanette and all her loved ones gone before her and that her sufferings on this earth is now over. Always in my prayers. God Bless All.
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Dennis & Jessie Eason posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Gary and family. We are sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. Sincere condolences to all the family! RIP Pam.
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Paulette and Craig Noseworthy posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 1, 2025
Amanda and family.
We are thinking of you all during this difficult, sad time of your lives. Our sincere deepest sympathy to you and your family. Hugs
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Fred and Paula Casey posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary and family, we were heartbroken to hear of Pam's passing. Beautiful soul ❤️. We are having very tender thoughts of you all. Our lives were enriched to have met such a beautiful lady who fought an amazing fight with MS! Definitely a role model. Fred and myself are having very tender thoughts right now of your family. One step at a time. God bless.
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Jim & Rosalind Kelly. Topsail C B S posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
To The Benson & Holden Family And Friends , Gary we are so very sorry to hear of Pam's passing Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to all ,Pam and I played on the same Dart team years ago at the S.U.F. In Topsail, A finer lady you would never find , Pamela May Your Gentle Soul Rest In Heavenly Peace,Until we meet again, GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
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David and Jeannette Holden posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Our deepest condolences Gary, James and Amanda. We were fortunate to have shared some good “ belly laughs “ ( as she called them ) during her recent stay at the HSC. It was our pleasure to have spent those few hours with her and shared many stories from the past. She will be missed for sure.
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Mary and Tony Tilley posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
So saddened to hear of Pam’s passing. Many blessings to Gary and all the family in the days ahead. God bless you all and may Pam rest in the loving arms of Jesus our saviour ❤️
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Linda Moores posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary, James and Amanda, so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful wife and Mom. I have a lot of precious memories of Pam when we worked together at The Phone Center. May she rest in peace..Hugs to all
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Terry and Juanita Radford posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary and family..sending our thoughts and prayers and deepest condolences at this time.R.I.P (God bless)
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Denis and Bonnie Butler posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
To Gary and family our sincere condolences on the passing of Pam may you take comfort in your precious memories.
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Randy Mercer posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary, so sorry for your loss. We go back many years.
Was there from day one when you guys met.
Hang in there bud. See you when I get back home
Brenda Redmond posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary, James, Amanda and the Holden Family… I will always cherish my memories of growing up with Pam on lLeslie St… walking to and from St. Patrick’s, playing games, and hanging out. Her bravery in dealing with MS was truly remarkable. She is in the arms of the angels now and I imagine her now dancing, smiling, and hugging her mom, dad, and Jeannette and Coco. She loved you all very much and while you will miss her presence, she will remain with you in spirit forever. Take care of each other … that is what she would want most. Brenda Redmond
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
You can rest in peace now, my beautiful friend. You will always be in my heart.
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Monday, March 31, 2025
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Ron Smith posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary and family..sending our thoughts and prayers and deepest condolences at this time.
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Bill Pittman posted a condolence
Monday, March 31, 2025
Gary, James and Amanda so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Pam. Pam was such a sweet person and she will be greatly missed by all. Please accept our heartfelt condolences from Donna and I. Our thoughts are prayers are with you all during this trying time. Good bless.
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Monday, March 31, 2025
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