Monday, December 12, 2022
I am feeling a deep loss today and pay tribute to a stalwart. While his name was on my Junior Soldier certificate when he was the DYS in Newfoundland, my real memories of being connected to Colonel Stanley (Ralph) and Mona goes back to the 14 years we all served at THQ at the same time. It was there I saw the many facets of Ralph, including: the strong leader, the strategic planner, the out-of-the box thinker, the voice of advocacy, the dedicated work ethic, the sharp memory (especially for names), the connector, the thoughtful preacher and teacher, the quick wit and humor and the person who could sense if someone was hurting or in need and without hesitation, showed compassion and provided practical assistance, usually behind the scenes, expecting no acknowledgement. He was a mentor to many and could be counted on to always "turn the coin over" to make sure we examined the other side as well. Thorough, not easy, was how he approached many things, especially when difficult decision making was needed. His ministry ranged from corps to youth, to social services and many leadership positions, all of which he gave 100% of his resources to. Ralph and Mona teamed up in kindness and support to many, including me. I am very grateful for his mentorship and their friendship. After his retirement, I would hear of the many causes he volunteered for and the active interest and support he provided in the corps and in the community, which did not surprise me at all. Retirement was a different phase of work and service for him, not a time to stop.
Mona, my heart goes out to you. After over 65 years of marriage and joint service, your loss will be felt deeply. You and Ralph raised amazing children and they, along with their spouses and your grandchildren, will be your support, I am sure.
Mark and Barb, I know your dad valued the legacy his father left for him and you have now been given the gift of his lasting legacy to be comforted by in the days to come.
My thoughts are with you as you process this loss and as you honor and remember him.
